Although my birthday is this month, it has not been good so far. Tom, my fiance' died last year on the 8th. My ex-husband, my kids father, just recently passed on the 14th and to make matters as stressful as possible, his family is prolonging the funeral until this Friday. My kids are very upset at this so I suggested they make a say so in the matter. Well, even his current wife thinks this is a long time. The kids aunt actually suggested splitting up the ashes. Well, anyway, we'll get through this, I just want my kids to be alright.